# Natosha's Substack

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## why do people act like they have tomorrow to love you?

you keep loving me in future tense.

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[drown in my love](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/drown-in-my-love)

[the tension between loving and healing](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/drown-in-my-love)

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[my homegirl and i started talking about relationships and somehow ended up here](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/my-homegirl-and-i-started-talking)

[i was on facetime with my friend nia last week when we ended up having one of those talks…](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/my-homegirl-and-i-started-talking)

Jun 10•[Natosha](https://substack.com/@theenaoshaj)

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[you don’t lose people because you didn’t care. you lose them because you didn’t act like it.](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/you-dont-lose-people-because-you)

[speaking from experience, as always…..](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/you-dont-lose-people-because-you)

Jun 4•[Natosha](https://substack.com/@theenaoshaj)

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[handle with care wasn’t a warning. it was a request.](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/handle-with-care-wasnt-a-warning)

[i was actually never too much, just asking the wrong people to hold me](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/handle-with-care-wasnt-a-warning)

May 27•[Natosha](https://substack.com/@theenaoshaj)

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[life becomes more meaningful when someone is there to witness your becoming.](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/life-becomes-more-meaningful-when)

[i’m moving out of my apartment today.](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/life-becomes-more-meaningful-when)

May 20•[Natosha](https://substack.com/@theenaoshaj)

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[there's too many birds on the ground and not enough in the sky](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/theres-too-many-birds-on-the-ground)

[everybody has something to say. very few people have sat long enough to think.](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/theres-too-many-birds-on-the-ground)

May 14•[Natosha](https://substack.com/@theenaoshaj)

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[idk if this will ever reach you](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/idk-if-this-will-ever-reach-you)

[but i needed to say it somewhere.](https://theenatoshaj.substack.com/p/idk-if-this-will-ever-reach-you)

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