Archive - Re-Design Your Life: A Softly Wired Journal
Resparking the fire
A note on life, autopilot, ditching the proverbial plan and just writing again.
Jun 5 • Amy Holistically
February 2026
Are we really time poor?
(Official) Week 1: The Redesigning Life Project
Feb 8 • Amy Holistically
January 2026
When the energy in the house shifts
Week 1 of re-designing my life (family rhythms bc the energy is low-key yuck rn)
Jan 10 • Amy Holistically
2026: The year of anti-optimisation
The year I choose and curate a life that feels liveable, not impressive.
Jan 4 • Amy Holistically
December 2025
December Notes
What I've been sitting with, supportive practises and some noticings.
Dec 30, 2025 • Amy Holistically
2025: The year I started redesigning my life
A year of unmasking, survival, and learning what actually matters.
Dec 22, 2025 • Amy Holistically
November 2025
Welcome to Softly Wired
Merging my two substacks into one powerhouse for ND lifestyle writing
Nov 6, 2025 • Amy Holistically
September 2025
What is Unschooling?
Chapter 1 / Why unschooling is more than education - it’s a way of living.
Sep 27, 2025 • Amy Holistically
Toys + Family Connection
Recs and Refills for 28-09
Sep 27, 2025 • Amy Holistically
Mothering Without Guilt
Why prioritising accommodations for neurodivergent families isn’t indulgence, it’s survival.
Sep 22, 2025 • Amy Holistically
The ND House Tour: How to Curate Your Home for Your Brain
Transform your space into a haven that works with your brain, not against it
Sep 19, 2025 • Amy Holistically
We did no devices for 30 days
We’ve just finished 30 days of no devices (iPads removed, TV only remains) and I’m happy to say we’ve graduated from “You’ve ruined my life” to “I…
Sep 16, 2025 • Amy Holistically
One way ticket to Burnout
Living between delulu dreams and daily drains.
Sep 10, 2025
August 2025
Mum-shaming, radical resets, and calling BS on “consistency”
This week from the kitchen table – why offence is optional, how to actually feel good again, and giving school-style routines the side-eye.
Aug 29, 2025
The Lost Art of Hobbying
I thought hobbies were “extra.” Turns out, they might be the thing saving my sanity.
Aug 26, 2025 • Amy Holistically
Sharing stories, neurodivergent homes, and confidence in your choices
This week from the kitchen table – reflections on online footprints, finding creative outlets, and standing strong in parenting decisions.
Aug 22, 2025 • Amy Holistically
How We Knew Screen Time Was Too Much
From support to dependency, when tools turn into habits.
Aug 20, 2025 • Amy Holistically
But What If My Child Doesn’t Want to Learn?
What neuroscience, experience, and trust tell us about motivation.
Aug 19, 2025 • Amy Holistically
Messy homes, yes parenting, and what actually matters
This week from the kitchen table - reflections on messy life, parenting principles, and finding your rhythm.
Aug 15, 2025 • Amy Holistically
The Myth of ‘No Anxiety’
My journey from GAD diagnosis to understanding the hidden link between autism and anxiety.
Aug 14, 2025 • Amy Holistically
The Year We Broke Up with Big Birthdays
From Pinterest pressure to peaceful family rituals - how we simplified birthdays and found more joy (even with PDA in the home).
Aug 10, 2025 • Amy Holistically
Co-regulation, anchoring yourself, book recs + Minecraft.
This week from the kitchen table - emotional depth, anchoring our kids, and the quiet strength behind closed doors.
Aug 7, 2025 • Amy Holistically
We Tried a Visual Schedule. Here's What Actually Helped.
A flexible approach to rhythms and routines that helps your neurodivergent child feel safe, not micromanaged.
Aug 6, 2025 • Amy Holistically
This Is What We Do Instead of Rules
Why principles work better - and what they actually look like at home.
Aug 2, 2025 • Amy Holistically