# Monica Pham

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## I Never Want to Talk to the Lambo Guy Ever Again

[Sometimes life falls apart all at once... and somehow still gives you exactly what you needed.](https://monicapham.substack.com/p/i-never-want-to-talk-to-the-lambo)

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### Recent posts

## The Weight of an Unfinished Relationship

[A reflection on second chances, old friendships, lost love, and the difficult decision of whether someone belongs in your future.](https://monicapham.substack.com/p/the-weight-of-an-unfinished-relationship)

Jun 11 • [Monica Pham](https://substack.com/@monicapham)

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## I Can See the Sun

[For years, I thought I was trying to understand my father. I didn't realize I was also trying to understand myself.](https://monicapham.substack.com/p/i-can-see-the-sun)

Jun 7 • [Monica Pham](https://substack.com/@monicapham)

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## Now, Sir. — The Night Lambo Guy Met Whole Foods Guy

[I spent years wondering if I'd ever find love again. Last night, two men sat in my living room discussing whether they wanted to marry me.](https://monicapham.substack.com/p/now-sir-the-night-lambo-guy-met-whole)

Jun 3 • [Monica Pham](https://substack.com/@monicapham)

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## What If There’s Nothing Wrong With You?

[For anyone who feels like they don't fit inside the life they're supposed to want.](https://monicapham.substack.com/p/what-if-theres-nothing-wrong-with)

Jun 2 • [Monica Pham](https://substack.com/@monicapham)

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## Now, Sir. — We Tried the Pop Rocks Thing

[Yesterday was probably one of the best days I’ve had with Josh.](https://monicapham.substack.com/p/now-sir-we-tried-the-pop-rocks-thing)

Jun 1 • [Monica Pham](https://substack.com/@monicapham)

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