The Playbook | Julia Martin Burch | Substack
Weekly Strategies to Help Kids (And Grown Ups) Thrive
Launched 10 months ago
Descriptive Praise
By noticing and naming what kids do well, adults can help nudge them towards better behavior.
Oct 15, 2025
The Send Off
Camp nerves are normal. Confidence comes after the leap.
I Saw It on Instagram
A Psychologist’s Take on 5 Viral Parenting Claims
Jun 17•Julia Martin Burch
The Myth of the Perfect Parent(ing Strategy)
Strategies matter. Relationships matter too. But the strongest parenting approaches combine both: clear guidance delivered within a warm and supportive…
Jun 10
The Assist
Your monthly shortcut to the things we've found useful, delightful, and surprisingly effective in the ongoing work of raising and educating kids.
Jun 3
Giving Effective Commands
Why kids stop responding when they learn the first four requests don’t count—and how to get them listening without nagging, escalating, or losing your…
May 27
Zen and the Art of Knowing Where Your Keys Are
How Montessori Design Can Help You Get Your Sh*t Together
May 20•Alex Tzelnic
The Stuck Brain
Having a phrase and an action to help you let go of situations when you feel stuck can be a powerful way to learn how to turn struggle into growth.
May 13
The Accommodation Trap: When Helping Fuels Anxiety
A practical, compassionate guide to one of the most powerful ways adults shape child anxiety
May 5•Julia Martin Burch
Cold Temperature
Big feelings are inevitable—crashing out doesn’t have to be.
Apr 29