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Life and Death

Death education and life inspiration from a death doula, grief educator, trauma survivor, and joy seeker.

By Chel

· Launched a year ago


A tribute to my 'ant,' the nature-lover

Rest in peace, Catherine Shannon Green

Dear Mama

A love letter to my late mother

May 9


Is it legal to bury someone in your back yard?

If so, does that make you exempt from paying property taxes?

May 7


Unconscious Uncoupling: How I Became the Villain in My Own Divorce Story

An examination of what's fair in love and war

Apr 25


And for my next trick, I’ll rebuild the boundaries I dismantled

Grieving what I gave up while waiting for others to change

Mar 29


Birth Doulas are Sanctified, Death Doulas are Satanic

An exploration into why we're seen as weirdos

Mar 23


Change the world by changing the way you grieve

Redefining our understanding of grief 'recovery' might be the societal paradigm shift the world needs now.

Feb 1


Why 'give 100 percent of yourself' makes me cringe

And how I challenge my own narrative

Jan 18


What happens to money in a ‘Trump Account’ if my child dies?

It's uncomfortable, but we have to talk about it.

Jan 11


What went right in 2025?

Considering what went right last year will set you up for success in 2026.