Episode 144: Is Your Life Story Actually a Memoir?

Jun 23, 2026

Transcript

Have you been thinking about writing your life story as a memoir? Before you start, there are some important distinctions every writer needs to understand. Getting clear on them could save you months of frustration.

In this episode, I breaks down the difference between memoir and autobiography, help you identify who you’re really writing for, and offer a honest word about emotional readiness before you share your story with the world.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why autobiography and memoir are not the same thing
The three audiences to consider before you write your story (yourself, your family, or a wider readership)
What memoir actually is: a specific transformation, not your whole life story
Why you need to heal privately before you share publicly
How to use your personal experience as illustration rather than the centerpiece of your writing
Why hiding behind your story might be fear in disguise

Resources mentioned:

Bible study resources from Jana Carlson: janacarlson.com
Free download: 10 Questions to Ask About Your Reader and Message → amylynnsimon.com/free-writing-resources

Recommended books on memoir writing (not all from a Christian perspective):

“Writing Life Stories” by Bill Roorbach
“Tell it Slant” by Brenda Miller and Suzanne Paola
“Handling the Truth” by Beth Kephart
“The Art of Memoir” by Mary Karr (contains some language, fyi)
“The Memoir Project” by Marion Roach Smith
“Your story Matters” by Leslie Leyland Fields

The Purposeful Pen is a weekly podcast for Christian writers designed to help you build a writing life with eternal impact. Each week you’ll hear practical tips and Biblical truth on topics such as improving your writing, honing your message, and managing your time. I always respond to listener emails and I’d love to hear from you! Amysimon@amylynnsimon.com