# Fractal Cafe

Working towards a future that *feels* better.

By Amanda

· Launched 5 years ago

## [An invitation to my cottage](https://amandango.substack.com/p/an-invitation-to-my-cottage)

[Each Friday, from 1:30–3pm PST, I will be holding space. You are welcome to drop in.](https://amandango.substack.com/p/an-invitation-to-my-cottage)

Jun 22•[Amanda](https://substack.com/@amandango)

## [When we stop holding (and coregulate)](https://amandango.substack.com/p/when-we-stop-holding-and-coregulate)

[It’s not a doing / addition move – there’s nothing you’re adding on top of what’s happening. It’s a subtraction. You stop the holding, and release into…](https://amandango.substack.com/p/when-we-stop-holding-and-coregulate)

Jun 17•[Amanda](https://substack.com/@amandango)

## [I want you to impact me](https://amandango.substack.com/p/i-want-you-to-impact-me)

[You will buffet me. You will trigger me. You will knock me off the tightropes I am balancing on, turn my reality inside out, humble me over and over. I…](https://amandango.substack.com/p/i-want-you-to-impact-me)

Jun 3•[Amanda](https://substack.com/@amandango)

## [When grief comes to visit, offer her your best chair](https://amandango.substack.com/p/when-grief-comes-to-visit-offer-her)

[I miss you, all the time.](https://amandango.substack.com/p/when-grief-comes-to-visit-offer-her)

May 27•[Amanda](https://substack.com/@amandango)

## [Birth, death, and the way of the warrior](https://amandango.substack.com/p/birth-death-and-the-way-of-the-warrior)

[The healing path asks us to die, and be reborn, over and over.](https://amandango.substack.com/p/birth-death-and-the-way-of-the-warrior)

Apr 28•[Amanda](https://substack.com/@amandango)

## [Touching divinity](https://amandango.substack.com/p/touching-divinity)

[Divinity beyond mind, awakening through the body, the knowing of true nature.](https://amandango.substack.com/p/touching-divinity)

Jan 25•[Amanda](https://substack.com/@amandango)

## [Sherpa: a collective database of healing journeys](https://amandango.substack.com/p/sherpa-a-collective-database-of-healing)

[Introducing Sherpa, a collective database of healing journeys](https://amandango.substack.com/p/sherpa-a-collective-database-of-healing)

Jun 22, 2025•[Amanda](https://substack.com/@amandango)

## [Four Pathways to Healing: Self, Imagined Other, Manifest Other, and the Divine](https://amandango.substack.com/p/four-pathways-to-healing-self-imagined)

[Healing happens where there is a meeting. To truly unburden and release the pain our parts have been carrying, they must be met, received, and…](https://amandango.substack.com/p/four-pathways-to-healing-self-imagined)

Jun 9, 2025•[Amanda](https://substack.com/@amandango)