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Artist & Mother
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Alexandra Nechita
@alexandranechita
Artist & Mother. Fellow human, just trying to figure it out one day at a time. Here to share pretty much whatever’s on my mind … & there’s a lot. Rearranging my internal & emotional furniture with every word I write.
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The Armor We Build From The Inside
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On Prayer, Even When I Didn’t Fully Believe in It
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Discipline is luxury.
Everyone wants ease. But creating it takes real work.
When I travel for work, my evenings are usually quiet, often room service, laptop open, winding down early. So I can be in the gym by 5, before the day takes over. Green juice and a macchiato already called ahead. Even away from home, my morning starts on my own terms.
The passion I have for my work fuels my discipline.
When you're truly connected to what you're building, structure stops feeling like sacrifice. You naturall…
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”Some of you don't clap for others, and that's why it will never be your turn”
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Mar 10
Things I bought Last Week
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When Authenticity Becomes Performative
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Things I Bought Last Week ed.2
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The Story We Tell In Other People’s Silence
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Jan 26
10-Year-Olds + Other Emotional Plot Twists
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Jan 24
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Things I bought Last Week
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Just Breathe BananaJan 22
What Really Makes You Cool
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Some of the best advice I received early in my career was:
Nostalgia will kill you.
It’s true. Things are going to change and evolve, view change as a part of the journey and be open to how it can open you.
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The Analog Algorithm
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Clarity Without Closure
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6 luxuries in life:
1. time
2. health
3. a quiet mind
4. slow mornings
5. ability to travel
6. a house full of love
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You are what you choose
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I love this essay!
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Me, trying to convince myself to loosen the reins a bit….
A Love Letter From A Control Freak
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People treat you well when they need you. Their true character is revealed when you can do nothing for them, and that’s the only test that matters. Gratitude performs; integrity endures. It’s easy to be kind when the transaction is alive, but watch how quickly the mask slips when utility fades. Character isn’t built in moments of gain; it’s exposed in moments of irrelevance.
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Oct 1, 2025
You're shaped by what you pay attention to
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Nothing Is Wasted
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Oct 28, 2025
From The Sidelines
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Oct 25, 2025
Open letter to The Row - we need to break up
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needed this reminder
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Oct 9, 2025
When The Talent Runs Out
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Sorry, Sorry, Sorry
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Sep 26, 2025
Friday Findings & Framed Thoughts
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Skilled consumption is actually just strong discernment
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This is about us …
The backlash against Ocean Vuong
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Friday Findings & Framed Thoughts
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Aug 11, 2025
Pure, Uncalculated Magic of Childhood Creativity
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Jul 21, 2025
The Sport of Shaming and Feasting on the Fall
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Jul 17, 2025
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Maturity is when you don't force people to choose you.
When you don't go where you're unwanted.
When you go where you are loved & desired.
When you surround yourself with those who want your energy around them.
Maturity is not begging to be chosen.
It's walking where you're wanted and wasting nothing on the indifferent.
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Ask Anyway
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Friday Findings & Framed Thoughts
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Subtle Serendipity \ \ Why I don’t believe in “ just a coincidence”\ \ Alexandra Nechita
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The Muscle of Making
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Friday Findings and Framed Thoughts
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Miyazaki knows ✍️
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Substack is a slow burn.
If you're starting from scratch, it can feel like you're shouting into the void and no one is listening.
But I'm here to tell you - keep writing.
Keep putting you out into the world.
You never know who's going to come across your work and it will change their life.
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Where Grit Meets Grace
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Friday Findings and Framed Thoughts
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Fifteen Minutes Of Forever
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& life goes on.
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i know people who wear The Row but it looks like Aritzia on them and I know people who wear Aritzia but it looks like The Row. (YOU CANNOT BUY STYLE THROUGH A BRAND!!!!) <33333
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May 23, 2025
Friday Findings and Framed Thoughts
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May 20, 2025
The Post That Vanished
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Not everyone who loves your work will comment.
Some will just read it in a quiet moment and feel a little less alone.
Keep writing for them.
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Maybe Substack isn’t just for writing.
Maybe it’s a soul signal.
A vibration. A frequency.
Calling in the others.
The remembering ones. The rising ones.
What if your words are the exact frequency someone else needs to remember who they are?
So, keep going. Your voice is needed here.
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FRIDAY FINDINGS & FRAMED THOUGHTS
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May 14, 2025
The Currency of Connection
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FRIDAY FINDINGS & FRAMED THOUGHTS
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Finding Inspiration in Unexpected Places
Or rather, allowing yourself the potential to discover…
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Apr 30, 2025
Hello Substack!
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I don’t get along well with people who don’t work hard.
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