# Knowingless

sex, psychedelics, and social analysis

By Aella

· Over 143,000 subscribers

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## [Nude Looksmatching](https://aella.substack.com/p/do-hot-people-fuck-more)

[Warning: this post has nudity, as well as frank discussion+data of how attractive people find various bodies.](https://aella.substack.com/p/do-hot-people-fuck-more)

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## [Blue button pressers are more into incest?](https://aella.substack.com/p/blue-button-pressers-are-more-into)

[or: what happens when you give me a social media site to run experiments on](https://aella.substack.com/p/blue-button-pressers-are-more-into)

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## [I built an extremely good sex matcher (Sexxo)](https://aella.substack.com/p/i-built-an-extremely-good-sex-matcher)

[and also a month long residency for content creators but that's only slightly related](https://aella.substack.com/p/i-built-an-extremely-good-sex-matcher)

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## [My Year On A Factory Floor Assembly Line](https://aella.substack.com/p/my-year-on-a-factory-floor-assembly)

[When I was 19, I spent a year assembling electrical relays on a factory floor for $10/hr.](https://aella.substack.com/p/my-year-on-a-factory-floor-assembly)

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## [The Other Porn Land](https://aella.substack.com/p/the-other-porn-land)

[In Pornlandia, relationships have a really particular failure mode: people get mad at each other for failing to live up to a sexual ideal.](https://aella.substack.com/p/the-other-porn-land)

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## My Birthday Gangbang

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## [How To Be Good At Sex: Starve Her Brain (pt1)](https://aella.substack.com/p/how-to-be-good-at-sex-starve-her)

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## [A Girl's Guide to a Data-Driven Orgy](https://aella.substack.com/p/a-girls-guide-to-a-data-driven-orgy)

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## [The Difficulty In Dating Good Men](https://aella.substack.com/p/the-difficulty-in-dating-good-men)

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## [how to tell if men will attack you on the street](https://aella.substack.com/p/how-to-tell-if-men-will-attack-you)

[Or at least make slightly better guesses about it](https://aella.substack.com/p/how-to-tell-if-men-will-attack-you)

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## [A whole lot of CSA data](https://aella.substack.com/p/a-whole-lot-of-csa-data)

[who gets CSA'd, who hates it more, age of parents, etc.](https://aella.substack.com/p/a-whole-lot-of-csa-data)

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## [A Feral Guide to Marketing](https://aella.substack.com/p/a-feral-guide-to-marketing)

[the user manual for attention when you have no attention span](https://aella.substack.com/p/a-feral-guide-to-marketing)

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## [What If We Looked At All Of Questionspace?](https://aella.substack.com/p/what-if-we-looked-at-all-of-questionspace)

[how scales work + the chaos survey](https://aella.substack.com/p/what-if-we-looked-at-all-of-questionspace)

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## [The Pain and the Glory of Nonmonogamy](https://aella.substack.com/p/the-pain-and-the-glory-of-nonmonogamy)

[I was nineteen, and I met a guy at a party in Idaho; he had sci-fi tattoos along his back, which I found awesome.](https://aella.substack.com/p/the-pain-and-the-glory-of-nonmonogamy)

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## [The biggest kink dataset is now easy to explore!](https://aella.substack.com/p/the-biggest-kink-dataset-is-now-easy)

[I made a site where you can look up answers to any questions](https://aella.substack.com/p/the-biggest-kink-dataset-is-now-easy)

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## [People Will Sometimes Just Lie About You](https://aella.substack.com/p/people-will-sometimes-just-lie-about)

[(crosspost)](https://aella.substack.com/p/people-will-sometimes-just-lie-about)

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## [Here's my Big Kink Survey dataset, raw](https://aella.substack.com/p/heres-my-big-kink-survey-dataset)

[and wriggling](https://aella.substack.com/p/heres-my-big-kink-survey-dataset)

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## [Sex Workers Are Built Different (graph dump)](https://aella.substack.com/p/sex-workers-are-built-different-graph)

[Comparing different sex work types and their contrast to non-sex-workers.](https://aella.substack.com/p/sex-workers-are-built-different-graph)

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