Knowingless

sex, psychedelics, and social analysis

By Aella

· Over 143,000 subscribers

Nude Looksmatching

Warning: this post has nudity, as well as frank discussion+data of how attractive people find various bodies.

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Blue button pressers are more into incest?

or: what happens when you give me a social media site to run experiments on

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I built an extremely good sex matcher (Sexxo)

and also a month long residency for content creators but that's only slightly related

Apr 22•Aella

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My Year On A Factory Floor Assembly Line

When I was 19, I spent a year assembling electrical relays on a factory floor for $10/hr.

Apr 16•Aella

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The Other Porn Land

In Pornlandia, relationships have a really particular failure mode: people get mad at each other for failing to live up to a sexual ideal.

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My Birthday Gangbang

Feb 29, 2024•Aella

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How To Be Good At Sex: Starve Her Brain (pt1)

Oct 18, 2023•Aella

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A Girl's Guide to a Data-Driven Orgy

Feb 14, 2025•Aella

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The Difficulty In Dating Good Men

Apr 21, 2025•Aella

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how to tell if men will attack you on the street

Or at least make slightly better guesses about it

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A whole lot of CSA data

who gets CSA'd, who hates it more, age of parents, etc.

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A Feral Guide to Marketing

the user manual for attention when you have no attention span

Mar 19•Aella

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What If We Looked At All Of Questionspace?

how scales work + the chaos survey

Mar 12•Aella

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The Pain and the Glory of Nonmonogamy

I was nineteen, and I met a guy at a party in Idaho; he had sci-fi tattoos along his back, which I found awesome.

Mar 5•Aella

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The biggest kink dataset is now easy to explore!

I made a site where you can look up answers to any questions

Feb 26•Aella

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People Will Sometimes Just Lie About You

(crosspost)

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Here's my Big Kink Survey dataset, raw

and wriggling

Feb 12•Aella

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Sex Workers Are Built Different (graph dump)

Comparing different sex work types and their contrast to non-sex-workers.

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